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Fathers’ Day

As we celebrate our fathers, let’s not forget to also talk to the future fathers and hubbies. Which type of father are you? I often argue with people who think they will wait till they become fathers to be good dads. Its like saying I will not be nice to you if I dont know you. There is a story I read about a lady whose boyfriend always told, “wait when you become pregnant, you will see how much I love you“. It was soothing to the ear. One day she tricked him into this “am pregnant thing” but afraid. “What can we do about it? 

The first reply was; “abort the baby!” Why? “Because you seem worried.” Okay, let’s see the girl was scared of what her parents might do and he thought he was doing the right thing.” But hey, is abortion the best option? Couldn’t he as a man stand up for his unborn child and encourage her to stay strong! I asked myself ” where is the love?” And what was he thinking when having unprotected sex? Ofcourse the girl was disappointed and decided to keep quite. After weeks of the boyfriend’s silence, she told him that she had decided to keep the pregnancy and he had to act responsible as he was the father. The guy started to text less &  her logs never missed any of his calls . When he did – he never asked about her situation. It was always one arguement after the other each day. Though the most captivating sentence was; “how do you want me to be responsible?” This was after she asked him to act responsible for their pregnancy. Can you imagine?

Probably that was one of those lines to her into his bed. The good thing is that she learned the kind of guy he was before making a mistake. Back to the existent fathers. Are the kind of father you daughter or family is proud of or the kind who can done everything possible to make them feel resentment towards you? Being a father is a whole issue from husband to the mother of your children. Apart from paying tuition and buying home necessities. You need to indulge in your children everyday activities. Iam not saying you become a spy. You getting involved in your children daily life makes them become free with you which is an important thing to every parent. 

Also as we celebrate fathers’  day, ask yourself what kind of relationship do I as  a husband have with my wife. This is because the type of relationship between you and your wife affects your children. There are families where parents are always quarreling to an extent that when dad comes back home. Children go to their bedrooms becuase to avoid the noise martial noise from the two. I have also seen, read and heard about fathers who listen to their children more than the wife. The wivies are forced to send the child to ask for money because when she goes there, he will not believe or it takes an argument to hand her the money to buy whatever it is she wants. 

The relationship you have with your partner will affect your children. Sometimes we wonder why some young men are violent and have no respect for men yet the environment they grew up from was the cause. We forget charity begins at home. 

Otherwise, on this beautiful day I want to thank God for my daddy. He is one of the greatest men in my life. And I wish you all fathers out there a fabulous fathers’ day. 

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Sunday Quotes

We all deserve the best and if you ain’t getting that “best” you maybe the problem or your partner. It could be that  the people around you ain’t the right people. Think about it. Why are you always breaking up with ur lovers or just maybe why they always leaving you for some other person? Another instance is; “no one ever approaches me”, you can not blame yourself for that “at times”. God’s timing is the best don’t get stressed out. However, you may be the problem again!

Often try to find out why things failed between you and him or her and you. If you do so, it will help you improve/ not to do the same mistakes. It is okay to acknowledge that you are the problem. 

Have a lovely Sunday.

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Discovering Uganda 

Day 29 | 31 day blogging challenge 

I cannot believe, am soon getting done with this challenge. Someone nominate me or give me a writing challenge pleaseeee…. Anyway today, am telling you guys about the places I have traveled too.

As a child was born in Kampala – Ntinda, Nsambya. Was baptized in Moroto, moved to Masindi, Lira and Arua. Also studied in Jinja at Rubaga Parents. I have been to Iganga and of course Busia by default because it is where I come from. 

I have been to Busia- Kenya. The only time I have crossed Uganda. Recently I was in Kalangala. It was amazing. 

I know some of you might have expected better results but thats my travel journal. Just around Uganda. Haha!! and i enjoyed every bit of it. I remember the time we were air lifted from Moroto in an aircraft to Kampala. Lets say my dad would be president of this country now but he feared to go to the bush. (If he sees this, I swear am dead!) Well,  have traveled for family and education reasons but am looking forward to travel for adventure reasons.