Domestic Violence

The children are more affected. What they see they learn and adapt. Lets help them to reduce it’s roots.

Many times when someone hears the word domestic violence the first thought that comes to their mind is that man who beats up their wife on a daily. It is on rare occasions that people think about the battered men . But this is because most men can not come up to the public and say “my wife beat me up”.  In Africa, it is losing respect if your wife beats you up. You are considered weak.
Leaving the mystery of the victims, people forget about the children who grow up seeing their parents fighting each every other day, quarreling and doing all sorts of violent things to each other. Sometimes that anger is passed onto the children and  in the long run these children are affected.They can not associate with others peacefully because each time their father has an issue with the mother or vice versa, its about fighting. Therefore, such a child ends up being brutal  and a poor listener because they think if you have a long hand, that is all you need to get what you want or solve your problems.



Life is a journey

Photo by me

Life Is a journey. Full of ups and downs but we all opt for the “ups”. 

     We all started from somewhere. No one wakes up one day as a great photographer, dancer, choreographer, blogger, banker, lawyer etc etc

Therefore, don’t be rude to the people who are learning from you because life is a journey.

     Always remember that you also started from somewhere. 



Hey bloggers, its been long since I scribbled a few lines on the hub. “Motivation” is what I bring you. But you must be asking what exactly about motivation? Well, am here to talk about what motivates you to write? Recently a friend of mine asked me why I have taken a longtime without writing. I told her, “I have been busy” but the reason is beyond being busy. I always love to scribble when my mind is at peace and with inspiration. Something I can feel. 

Back to you guys, let’s share what motivates you to blog? 

About me

A letter to July,

Dear July, 

Iam 3 days old here and so far things are going well. July please continue to be nice to me. June was so pissed with me that I almost list faith in what is good. It seemed as though I was being punished for all the wrong things I had done in that past months. It all started with my phone, then laptop etc etc. In every sad moment I tried so hard to find some goodness because I knew no matter what I was going through, there are people outside there who have problems bigger than what I had. 

What am I tryna say, always try to find happiness in everything. Positivity will take you to different places. A fabulous July.

So yesterday, Joy’s mum invited us for ” an after 4 years of journalism school” luncheon. It was amazing. To me this was a beginning of something great! Get you friends who become family. It ain’t everyday that people open their doors willingfully  to persons they completely don’t know.